The Effects Of Toxic Shame: Right Or Wrong? What Is Healthier?

The Effects Of Toxic Shame: Right Or Wrong? What Is Healthier? By Bart Sharp When people are raised in homes where they are shamed by their parents to such an extreme degree they grow-up in a state of toxic shame, (being shamed to such a degree that if effects someone in significant ways).  One-way people [...]

An Alternative Strategy For Healing Toxic Shame

An Alternative Strategy For Healing Toxic Shame By Bart Sharp Toxic shame is when we are raised in a home where we are placed in situations that we are controlled in an abusive way/s that create our self image as less than.  We create us in a false way to be able to fit into [...]

Making Love To A Goddess

Making Love To A Goddess   By Bart Sharp   Several years ago I attended a blessing by the world reknown hugging saint Ammachi.  Ammachi gives thousands of people each year a blessing by hugging the person called darshan.  For many it is a life changing experience as the blessing raises the vibrational rate of [...]

Unrequited Love

Unrequited Love   By Bart Sharp     Unrequited love is not returning love in how it was given to us.  This concept is especially true with those who were abuse by their parents and the love they received was much lesser than whole.  The abused child harbors the shame and anger from the abusive [...]

Our Personal Growth Can Have Darkness Before There Is Light

Our Personal Growth Can Have Darkness Before There Is Light   By Bart Sharp   Sometimes when we feel we are stuck in our personal growth we are close to breaking through to something greater in our therapeutic progress.  It may feel like we are totally in our limitations when actually we are making great [...]

Fear of Success: Not Knowing What Success Would Feel Like Part Three

Fear of Success: Not Knowing What Success Would Feel Like By Bart Sharp It may not be the fear of success that limits us but not knowing what success feels like that leaves us clueless how to achieve success.  A big part of the equation is the unconscious aspects of shame that we do not [...]

Fear of Success: Not Knowing What Success Would Feel Like Part Two

Fear of Success: Not Knowing What Success Would Feel Like By Bart Sharp It may not be the fear of success that limits us but not knowing what success feels like that leaves us clueless how to achieve success.  A big part of the equation is the unconscious aspects of shame that we do not [...]

Fear of Success: Not Knowing What Success Would Feel Like Part One

Fear of Success: Not Knowing What Success Would Feel Like By Bart Sharp It may not be the fear of success that limits us but not knowing what success feels like that leaves us clueless how to achieve success.  A big part of the equation is the unconscious aspects of shame that we do not [...]

The Unconscious Power Of Oprah Winfrey

The Unconscious Power Of Oprah Winfrey By Bart Sharp The life of Oprah Winfrey has inspired us all.  What fascinates me with Oprah Winfrey’s biography is that she had many disadvantages in her youth including poverty and being raped.  However Oprah believed in her self and her dreams to be much more.  Oprah Winfrey’s life [...]

Jay Cutler And Healing Shame

Jay Cutler And Healing Shame By Bart Sharp Last Sunday the Chicago Bears played the Green Bay Packers in the NFC Championship football game and Chicago’s star quarterback Jay Cutler had a knee injury in the first half of the game.  Jay Cutler tried to complete the game but left in the 3rd quarter not [...]

Next Page »