By Bart Sharp

How do we let go of a love or relationship that we have lost.  Here are some tips of how to let go of love.

To begin, do not blame the other person.  In love and relationship we do as two people.  We both have our parts.  It is quite easy to become angry at another and go into how they mistreated us or the mistakes they made, however it resolves nothing for us and teaches us little.  To be aware of how we allowed these behaviors to come into the relationship is a healthier perspective.  It may be their behaviors but we played into them.

When we discover what unconsciousness is within us that guides us to those patterns, we find the awareness that will open us to letting go of the lost love.  It can give us the biggest freedom and joy to discover our part and thus we will know how to do it differently next time.

Consciousness attracts the same consciousness to it.  There is something about learning those lessons that attracts a better relationship for the future.  If we do not learn we will likely make the same mistake again.

Grieving is important.  Most everyone hates and avoids this part of the process of loss yet it is so important.  If we do not release our tears that sadness lies within us and we carry it into our life and into the next relationship.  It is natural for us to grieve.  I personally hate doing it but I always feel better when I stay active in the grieving.  Often people ignore the tears and either go to blaming or another relationship, nothing is learned.  In grieving we gain perspective.

Gary Douglas of Access Energy Transformation teaches a valuable tool.  When we find ourselves in judgment, angry or in blame say to your self, “Interesting point of view that I have that point of view.”  This powerful statement detaches us from the judgment we are doing.  I find when I have a thought about something and I know I have done the inner work but when reoccurring thoughts are still coming up I say “Interesting point of view that I have that point of view.”  Sometimes I have to repeat it a few times but that reoccurring thought process that I feel I have no control over goes away. I go to a perspective of detachment which opens me to perceive not judge.

One of my favorite quotes: “What cures our lost love?  Laughing at our big mistakes and crying in the sorrow.  Follow your heart to know what to do.”

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“Living A Prosperous Life” activates us to receive more health, happiness, joy, money and abundance in our life. The CD is a message to our body, unconscious and conscious minds that we can receive more of everything in life.
“Clearing Anger” releases suppressed anger in our body. A wonderful CD to listen to multiple times to release suppressed anger in us. Good for those with addictions, depression, resentments and anger.
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By Bart Sharp

The funny thing about money and personal finances is that most people will spend the amount they have and go beyond to the limits of what debt they can carry.  If they make $100,000 a year take they a loan on a $400,000 dollar home, buy the best technical equipment and of course a nice car.  It seems to be the American way of life to max-out our credit where we live on a thin line between having enough and not having enough money to meet their financial obligations.  Most Americans and other people across the world live in a continual financial crises.

What is lacking is the discipline to manage money.  However the skills of financial management are not intellectual but emotionally based concepts.  Most people buy to bring themselves happiness.  The misidentification for most people is that money will buy them security and happiness.  That kind of happiness is only a fleeting emotion.

In fact security is something that is fulfilled on more of a emotional/viscereal energetic perspective not a material.  It is when all of our inner needs are met that we feel secure.  It is a feeling that everything is complete in us.  I call it joy.  Joy is an inner quality while happiness is more a result from an action.  So part of our personal financial planning should always be resolving what does not feel right in us, resolving emotional blocks and creating a connection to a higher power.  They will give us more satisfaction than a new car.

By Bart Sharp

What if true empowerment was no longer struggling against yourself but bringing all of that energy and present into what you really wanted to create?

What if true empowerment was having no need of relationships but totally enjoying for what ever they were?

What if true empowerment is never buying that pain could really hurt you it is just a sensation therefore we no longer suffer?

What if true empowerment was your heart was open and ready to receive even if you were in a cold rainstorm of life?

What if true empowerment was knowing that you never have to compare yourself to anyone again and you flowed as yourself for the rest of your life?

What if true empowerment was never laughing at anyone again but smiling with the world?

What if true empowerment was about listening and not having a need to talk?

What if true empowerment made money less of our motivation and staying true to fulfilling the desires is our heart our full intention?

By Bart Sharp

What Reiki teaches us is to be that channel of an energetic power from a greater source, we are conduits for energy.  There are some valuable perspectives from Reiki that we can use in everyday life.  In being the best connecter to divine energy balance is up most important.  The quote “Just for today I choose to be happy!” is profound in its simplicity.

It represents the happier we are deep within us the more powerful we are in our energetic transmissions.  Happiness is simple but how many are fully happy deep in our soul?  It brings the question up, what pain, anger, shame etc am I suppressing that distracts me from happiness?

As an energy worker I am only as good as my clarity to receive all energies and be clear to my own soul.  Otherwise my stuff can be a limitation shared with those I intend to help.  Living just for today keeps me honest, a gut check in every situation is a part of life.  If I cannot be in that happy, balanced state there is something I need to resolve before I can help anyone else.

By Bart Sharp

At he end of a weekly session with one of my clients, who insisted that I go outside and see his new car.  Carried by his enthusiasm I went outside to see his new automobile.  Being that I am not a ‘car person’ this was not an event for me.  But I wanted to support this man so off I went.

Outside under a heavily shaded tree in my front yard sat a bright cerulean blue Corvette Stingray.  My jaw dropped in amazement.  It was beautiful.  I was never a fan of Stingrays but I immediately fell in love with this beautiful machine as my client proudly showed off his pride and joy.

As I marveled at my first close-up experience with a Corvette I was at the crossroads of a choice.  Should I be envious of someone who had something that I had suddenly wanted or do I join my friend in his gain.

I received a tremendous gift by joining in with the new ‘vette’ owner.  I got to be a part of his excitement.  If I had judged him there would have been a separation with me from myself and with my client’s joy.  In essence I would have missed out.

By joining my client’s excitement I opened the opportunity to receive the gift of the joy that owning something you love can create.  All I had to do was join in with my client’s excitement.  I was happy to get to take that energy he possessed into my life and apply to what I create. Each time he comes over I get to see the Corvette and share in that excitement again.

Joy and receiving are a reciprocal process.  We can decide to have it, share it and give it out; the cycle that creates the opportunity for us to receive more of it.  We can be a part of that gathering wave that never ends into a shore.

By Bart Sharp

Several years ago I began the process of identifying and letting go of my resentments I held of others using the Al Anon program.  By reviewing my life and seeing; who I held anger towards, finding out how I played a part of it and letting this past be released to a higher power I began finding a new freedom.  I was letting go of a past that clogged me up inside with emotional pain.  It was the first in a variety of modalities that I would use to uncover more freedom in my life.

The unexpected gift that I received was the birth of my intuitive abilities.  Somewhere in the release of my anger and resentments it opened a space for me to perceive within my body in a way I had never done before.  I began to notice that I was having messages come up from my stomach.  They were thoughts very much like the ones from my mind but they felt softer, wiser and were from a bigger place.

I quickly discovered that directionality was an important distinction as I felt information coming up into my awareness it was my intuitive self.  If the messages came from my head it was my mental self.

Each had different energetic qualities as well as the mental felt more tense and contracted and the intuitive was relaxed. Expansive, as if it was coming from a greater source.   It was soon that I could discriminate between the two and use them.

A few years down the road I began using a tool called Access Energy Transformation and there I learned to listen to my body.  Our bodies would find some way to signal or tell us greater information if we asked it. I found this concept to be very powerful.  By asking my body questions I would get a signal such as a surge of energy in my stomach.  As I used the Access tools I found that my awareness of me began to go outside of my body.  As I practiced over the next two years I could feel the energies of trees, cats, people and a variety of other things.  It was easy and felt natural.  With each energy that I perceived something new as they all felt different.  I was building a vocabulary.

A few years later I met someone who was very talented in perceiving energies, as she got to know me she was amazed how much I was out of my body.  I was surprised at first but eventually realized that the traumas and anger I held as a child were not really gone.  As a result of a traumatized childhood I was as much out of my body in my awareness as I was inside of it.  It was why I could perceive everything outside of me so easily.  In some unconscious place I was functioning there all along.

I then began a daily ongoing practice of feeling my emotions inside of me.  I thought that I was not angry but was very wrong.  I actually was still resentful towards people and generally had an ongoing internal conflict with one or two people most of the time.

I began to feel where those angers were located in my body.  As I identified who I was mad at and where the incident began I would feel it inside of me much stronger.  When I felt I knew the energy very clearly I began using Access energetic clearings and it would all transform in a strong energetic release inside of me.  I practiced these tools for weeks and began to feel tremendous freedom from anger.  As the months passed these tools developed to perceive not only the blocked energy inside of me but where it was creating the disembodied part of me.  When I was able to transform these energies I began to experience a joyfulness I had never known before.  It was the joy of being embodied.

As a result of this intense work my psychic abilities have increased expedential. Now I perceive things inside of me in a more profound way because I am in touch with my body more.  It is a process of getting to know our fears and when we find their sources we unleash them to find the gifts of us that have been suppressed with our limitations.  Then we grow in ways that we never thought we could.

By Bart Sharp

As adults we often have a different perspective than children do with the world of play.  We adults use play as forms of exercise, sports, competition, self-improvement and the most popular stress relief.     In the strategy of play as stress relief we have fun and/or are entertained as a way to escape our adult world.  It also serves us in that we adjust out of the tensions that our body is locked in to soothe us, relax.  It creates excitement within us that is energizing.  We need to play.

There is much that adults can expand upon in the ways a child plays.  Children play in a more creative way.  They are open to experience playful fun in a wider variety of ways.  They relish it.  A child has a more concentric point of view towards play in that they do it in 360 degree perspective where as adults lean to a more linear perspective, “I play when I bicycle and meet-up with my friends.  When I work I only work.”

A normal child can find play in almost any situation.  They crave it and intrinsically know that it is very important.

What we can learn from children is how creativity is an integral part of play.  It is an important vehicle to explore, imagine, build and be sensual.  We forget the creative side of play by doing things like painting, photography, building a decorative garden or writing a story for pleasure.  It ignites something inside of us that turns us on to living.  When we are turned on in such ways we become more opened, curious and less predictable.

How many adults do you know that do not play well are frightfully boring?   How many adults do not seek play intrinsically but wish to be entertained?  We often misidentify that we need to seek entertainment outside of us instead of activating our creativity within and as a result our selves to find something better than entertainment, joyful satisfaction.

Sometimes it feels good to do sensual playful things, to simply rub our bare feet on the warm earth.  Walk in the rain or snow. Sensuality is an important part of play.  How many adults would relish walking barefoot in the mud and enjoy the squishy sensations between out toes.  Yet if we had that attitude would lovemaking be different.

As adults we would be more whole persons if we sought play and relaxation too not only fulfill our adult needs but the child within us as well.

By Bart Sharp

When I talk to people about what they would like to create in their life so many begin to talk about things that they would like to have.  It sometimes comes from a perspective of becoming more aware, having more inner freedom and it should bring more money in their life.  So many people say, “If I am creating a magical life why not create more money?”

It is a good question but being rich has many judgments about it from the individual standpoint, from people around the world and through out history.  Due to its place of significant importance around the planet it can be difficult to make big changes in short amounts of time.

Instead of making money our measuring stick to determine if we are more aware or successful; what if we look to various areas of our life instead.  Wealth is a holistic way of being.  To begin it might be good to look at some of the attitudes we have that prevent us from receiving more of life.

To change our perspectives around wealth it may be wiser to look at how much of our life do we feel happy and complete about.  How much of the time are we satisfied with our selves?  How much of the time are we doubtful that we are good enough for others?  How much of the time do we spend blaming others for our struggles?  How much of our time are we resenting others?  Just to name a few considerations of where our energy may be going instead of creating transformation in our life.

If we are recreating negativity in our life we are sending our life force to those self-defeating endeavors.  They could be used as an energy to generate something of a more productive intention.  It is one of the keys in creating our dreams.  Directing where our intention is going in every single moment of the day in a way that creates growth for us.  One of our true life goals.

If we learn to grow within ourselves, to be able to center our intentions to our dreams we will create more of what we desire.  It might come in the ways of wealth or it may be something else.  Every individual is different so there is no set formula or procedure.

I bring the focus to becoming more aware.  It is generally a process of identification of my limitations, processing them and allowing them to transform.  It brings in a new space for something to grow in my life.  Then I like to follow what is exciting for me and develop it with a passion.  It is funny but I seem to receive more of everything in life when I am true to this formula and am guided by my bliss.  It is like a message to a greater source that I am whole and deserve everything in life that wholeness has to offer.  It comes in a variety of ways and money is one of them.

It all begins by listening within and the wide variety of riches follows.

By Bart Sharp

In his autobiography Barack Obama admitted to a wilder youth than any other presidential candidate in history.  He admittedly did illegal drugs.  I am so relieved that Barack did both accounts of sharing his past honestly and that he had a wilder side, much like most of us.

Looking at Obama’s life he was forced to become an exceptional student as his mother pushed him and influenced a highly disciplined mind to come forth.  It only makes sense that there would be a time of rebellion for Barack by doing things like drugs.  Of course he returned to the ways his mother taught him that groomed him to the path of greatness.

The healthiest perspective is that the confession in his book means that Barack is willing to reveal his darker sides.  Many of our presidential and political presidents cover up any deflect of character to the public.  Even worse cover it up to themselves.   Then of course the behavior has to come out in some shape or form.  In the words of Carl Jung, “If the shadow (or dark side) of a person is not confronted and revealed it will come out as more animalistic.”  The shadow has come out in many brutal ways of these people that suppress the sides that they are ashamed of, angry about or in fear.

I remember George Bush on Oprah Winfrey when running for his first presidency stating he had issues.  When Oprah asked if he would like to share them with the audience George responded, “Heck no! I’m running for president.”  At the time it was cute and charismatic something for everyman type of persona however George changed once into the office as more of an eliteist and one that did not advocate for the common man.  If only we could have seen his shadow before office.

How many of our politicians have been caught in scandals of sexual or financial nature. The seduction of power through money stems from unresolved fears that a person is not enough.  We all have been shamed in life that we are lesser and the fix of having money or power is very tempting.

The cure for avoiding scandal is to have an ongoing rigor of honesty with our selves.  To find our freedom from the places we hold fear, anger and shame.  The more we uncover our own limits we open to an internal joy of us.  A happiness that relishes integrity as it is a reflection of our own wholeness.